Like many of you, I am a fan of "The Biggest Loser". What makes the show special is not so much that people lose an enormous amount of weight, but more importantly, their re-connection with themselves. Exercise and nutrition (as well as an investment in one's overall health) are simply the tools we (trainers, coaches) use to motivate others to empower themselves. In essence, it really isn't about losing weight; it's about loving yourself enough to do something for yourself...investing in yourself to create a better quality of life.
A few weeks ago was The Biggest Loser's infamous "Makeover Week". It's always enjoyable to see how happy the contestants are with themselves as they sport new haircuts and fashions to match their new bodies and new self-identities. One thing that stood out to me in this season's Makeover Week was what contestant, Liz, stated in her speech. She talked about how she gained weight because she was so busy taking care of her family and other significant people in her life, she stopped taking care of herself. She added that being on the BL Ranch gave her a renewed sense of self-worth, and for the first time in her life, realized that she could not truly help others, without first taking care of herself. By investing in herself, she is stronger and more able to meet the needs of others.
Listening to Liz talk about her struggle, reminded me so much of not only myself, but women, specifically mothers and wives, everywhere. It is a topic often discussed at play-dates among moms, or between husbands and wives, but rarely discussed publicly. The reality is that many women, once they get married and start families, become so engrossed in nurturing their families that they lose themselves along the way. They often sacrifice personal dreams, goals, and careers so that they can provide for their husbands, children, and community. While it is righteous, in my belief, to put family first, like Liz discovered, it should not be at the cost of our own individual worth, happiness, and identity.
Women constantly struggle to find a balance between being a mother, wife, and an individual. Too often, I see the balance not met, with one side of the scale much heavier than the other, and over time, women lose themselves. You can see this in the simple fact of how many women stop taking care of their bodies. They eat on the run, for convenience, without much thought to nutrition. They don't take time to exercise. They stop doing their hair, wearing make-up, or dressing nicely in exchange for "low-maintenance" haircuts and plain clothes. They make excuses as to why they aren't taking care of themselves and usually that excuse is too many responsibilities. They feel overwhelmed.
Although I have my "sweat-pant" days, too, I still make an effort to do my hair and dress-up most days of the week for the simple reason that it is my way of telling myself, and the world, that I will not lie down and die. That no matter what my responsibilities are, and no matter how I age, I am still valuable. This mentality is what I aim to bestow upon other women who need encouragement, motivation, and need to be reminded that, just like their families, they matter, too! A woman who is happy with herself, who invests in herself, will be a better wife and mother; a win-win for everyone.
As we saw with Liz, as well as most of the contestants on the Biggest Loser, exercising and eating right are great ways to re-discover yourself. Once you do something good for yourself, you feel so much better about yourself and your life. You will want to continue down the path of self-investment and you will discover that taking better care of yourself will not only positively impact you, but also those who matter most to you. When you are happy with yourself, your relationships with others will be better, and you will be a role model for your family, friends, and children.
You don't have to wait for January 1st to take action. Get on an exercise program, today! Start making smart decisions about nutrition and health. Invest in yourself. You're worth it!
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